Are You The Winner Or The Loser?

The Winner is always part of the answer;
The Loser is always part of the problem.

The Winner always has a program;
The Loser always has an excuse.

The Winner says,”Let me do it for you”;
The Loser says,”That is not my job”.

The Winner sees an answer for every problem;
The Loser sees a problem for every answer.

The Winner says,”It may be difficult but it is possible”;
The Loser says,”It may be possible but it is too difficult”.

When a Winner makes a mistake, he says,”I was wrong”;
When a Loser makes a mistake, he says,”It wasn’t my fault”.

A Winner makes commitments;
A Loser makes promises.

Winners have dreams;
 Loser have schemes.

Winners say,”I must do something”;
Losers say,”Something must be done”.

Winners are a part of the team;
 Losers are apart from the team.

Winners see the gain;
Losers see the pain.

Winners see possibilities;
 Losers see problems.

Winners believe in win/win;
Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.

Winners see the potential;
Losers see the past.

Winners are like a thermostat;
Losers are like thermometers.

Winners choose what they say;
Losers say what they choose.

Winners use hard arguments but soft words;
Losers use soft arguments but hard words.

Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;
Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.

Winners follow the philosophy of empathy,
“Don’t do to others what you would not want them to do to you”;
Losers follow the philosophy,
“Do it to others before they do it to you”.

Winners make it happen;
Losers let it happen.

source : http://dedewijaya.wordpress.com/2011/04/12/are-you-the-winner-or-the-loser/#comment-2656